Sometimes we all need some help, someone to give us some advice on what to do. I've tried to gather some of the quotes that have a special meaning to me so that other people might find something to help when they have problems. These things probably seem a little strange but I wouldn't call them strange, I think I'd use the word "Special".

Sorry, this stuff just here is from Moonberry because she has such a great site and I think you should go to www.moonberry.com right now.

your sweet, sweet smile
appears so familiar....,
where have i seen it before?
i cannot remember but it must have been
in my dreams when i saw you and
your sweet, sweet smile


Fate and destiny will determine whether we will be together and spend many memorable, happy, content days, sharing a million sunsets, sitting beneath the vast sky glittering with stars for a million nights. Perhaps this is how things are meant to be. Not to pursue, and not to be pursued but to truly let nature takes its own course. The love of my life will be there for me. I know one day when we are in each others' arms, we'll share an inner glow because our hearts are smiling.


i never resisted your charms
even though u were never smittened by me
i always looked at you and smiled
my emotions constantly reflected through my eyes
i used to think about the lonely nights
when you finally cared to be in my room
you closed your eyes
and gently kissed me
without a word you slowly held me
tight in your arms
i loved you,
i truly loved you
for once in my lifetime
i let down my guard
and indulged in thoughts of you and me
that you loved me
that you truly loved me
for once in my lifetime
i let go of my abstinence
and convinced myself that i can
indeed love you truly

I don't know if she wrote this stuff herself, it seems to me that she did.

Hello. My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to die.

Heavy the sorrow that bows the head
When love is alive and hope is dead.
    -- W. S. Gilbert
I love you, not only for what you are,
but for what I am when I am with you.
    -- Roy Croft
"If we deny love that is given to
us, if we refuse to give love because we fear
pain or loss, then our lives will be empty,
our loss greater."
Immature love says:
    "I love you because I need you."
Mature love says:
     "I need you because I love you."
    -- Erich Fromm
After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning and company doesn't mean security,
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open, with the
    grace of an adult, not the grief of a child,
And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too
    uncertain for plans.
After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to
     bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure... that you really are strong,
And you really do have worth.



...before I could come to any conclusion it occurred to me that my speech or my silence, indeed any action of mine, would be a mere futility. What did it matter what anyone knew or ignored? What did it matter who was manager? One gets sometimes such a flash of insight. The essentials of this affair lay deep under the surface, beyond my reach, and beyond my power of meddling.
    -- Joseph Conrad
But whether there's some grand design really matters little to me. My only hope was this: to see what might be, to believe that it should be, and then to do all I could to bring it to pass, whatever the cost. When a life spins out as joyfully as mine has done, then the price, once paid so painfully, is now recalled in gladness. I have received full value. Here among the shepherds, my cup is filled with the water of life; it overflows.
    -- Orson Scott Card, "Treason"
A man should not allow himself to hate even his enemies, because if you indulge this passion on some occasions, it will rise of itself in others; if you hate your enemies, you will contract such a vicious habit of mind, as by degrees will break out upon those who are your friends, or those who are indifferent to you.
    -- Plutarch
...whether it is better to spend a life not knowing what you want or to spend a life knowing exactly what you want and that you will never have it.
    -- Richard Shelton
    The grace of God means something like: Here is your life. You might never have been, but you are because the party wouldn't have been complete without you. Here is the world. Beautiful and terrible things will happen. Don't be afraid. I am with you. Nothing can ever separate us. It's for you I created the universe. I love you. There's only one catch.
    Like any other gift, the gift of grace can be yours only if you'll reach out and take it. Maybe being able to reach out and take it is a gift too.
    -- Frederick Buechner


I was going to change the quotes here once in a while, but I'm not sure I'll get the chance to find new things so if you have any suggestions then mail me.